On Sunday, Mr. Blondie and I had a late lunch at Castle Hill. While the meal and service was SENSATIONAL, the atmosphere was terrible. WHY you ask? How can this beautiful seaside Inn have a terrible atmosphere? Because of this incredibly RUDE and CRUDE couple that got seated on the side of us. This couple I will call Trash F (for female) and Trash M (for male). They felt NO NEED to keep their bickering to themselves.
M to F: All the jewelry you have on, is it from David?
F to M: Well when you are husband and wife it's kind of like you are both paying for it, so rightfully its mine.
M to F: No it's f'n David's jewelry and I dont think you should wear it. I would buy you an f'n 1000.00 bracelet if you didnt wear all of his s**t.
F to M: Its not a big deal please dont make it a big deal.
M to F: Its a big deal if I make it a big deal. You are such a bit** I cant believe how much of a HO-ARE you are.
At this point the womans head is hung in shame and it looks as if this happens on a daily basis.
M to F: You are a C*** and Ive wasted two years of my life with you. You are trash. Im done with you.
The woman STILL doesnt stand up for herself.
And they have NO regard for anyone seated around them.
This continues on and on and on (for over 20 minutes) until the point that I just cant take it anymore and instead of giving them a piece of Blondie's mind I walk over to the hostess and ask if I can change seats so I could enjoy my lunch. She already knew of the heated situation so she moved us very gracefully.
Here's my piece of advice for TRASH SQUARED~
1. Dont got to a very expensive restaurant if you are in the beginning stages of a full on blowout.
2. If you are in a blowout, consider the people around you and don't make a scene.
3. Kindly pay your bill and leave your bickering to your vehicles, homes, etc.
4. Frankly, if you are going to get mad at a woman for wearing jewelry she's acquired thru the years you are crazy.
5. If you can't handle the fact she was married before and jealousy has gotten the best of you don't date her. Enough said.
Here is my piece of advice for F TRASH~
1. No matter what has happened in your life, please have enough RESPECT for yourself to get out of that relationship.
2. As an outsider, I wanted to get up and punch this guy in the face or throw food at him, don't sit there and take it.
3. Its OBVIOUS that this is both a verbally and physically abusive relationship to any outsider, be embarassed enough to get help.
4. FINALLY you are worth more than that ugly piece of trash will ever be. Let him know by leaving him.
I had anxiety the whole time I was sitting on the side of this couple. I couldnt understand what made this guy feel as if he could treat a woman this way. I also couldnt understand why this woman just hung her head in shame and didnt stand up for herself? It was just a whole sad mess and I wish that woman well. I just hope I dont end up reading about her in the obits.
